The Drop Off
This is the time of year when many parents are faced with the dreaded “College Drop Off.” Social media is flooded with pictures of decked-out dorm rooms and beaming freshman eager to begin the next chapter of their lives. Often the comments associated with these happy images offer condolences to parents, asking “How are you doing?” and “Are you holding up okay?”, not to mention the number of sad emojis to mark this emotional rite of passage. I must admit that my first drop off ended with tears. They were primarily tears of joy, however, and not tears of sadness. We were helping our son get settled at a small liberal arts college that would allow him to pursue his dream of studying engineering. His path to college was somewhat unusual in that he decided to pursue track and field at the collegiate level toward the end of 11th grade,…